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孩子的眼睛

「好痛啊!我唔想盲眼啊!」他哭著大叫。身旁大人們立即跪下來檢視他的傷勢,混亂中給他安慰。
新聞片段播到這一段,我好心痛。
是個八歲的小孩子。那可是胡椒噴霧!大人也覺得刺痛難擋。
回頭跑到小床邊,我那幾個月大的小人兒剛好轉醒,瞪著一雙圓眼睛定神看我。眼淚簌簌落下。
傷及孩子,母親的心總是最痛。

警務署長曾偉雄對著傳媒的鏡頭說:「警方為維護法紀要道歉,是天方夜譚。」一派理直氣壯。
曾先生,你能夠,看著八歲的 Joseph 的眼睛,把同一番說話,再對他說一遍嗎?
你看著他,被傷害過的眼睛,假如你能直勾勾的看進去,說吧說要你道歉是天方夜譚吧--你說得出口嗎?

或許你受夠了上手鄧竟成先生「Sorry Sir」的作風,你以為對手無寸鐵的示威者或菜園村村民施展強硬手腕,可以挽回警察的面子和形象,你以為拒絕道歉會讓你像個鐵漢……我猜想是吧。
你錯晒。
唯有承擔,才可使你似番個男人。婦孺已傷,還好意思斤斤計較錯在他們,還聯同同事轉移視線以發動全港街坊責難他們,實在核突。跟曾特首向幹部告狀胸口痛一樣核突。

男人,即便真的覺得錯在婦孺,即便當場無心(fyi, 署長說他們是經過深思屬慮的)事後無論如何,也應該挺起胸膛接受批評,對外說不出道歉,也至少打官腔說「遺憾」,對八歲傷者「表示慰問」;私底下向 Joseph 及高太親自道歉,向他們解釋當時境況為何必要便用胡椒噴霧,是氣度,是胸襟。
真正強大的男人,光明磊落,教孩子的眼睛向他投以仰慕和信任。
反之,窩囊廢柴輸掉的不只是孩子,而是全世界。

[後記/註]
這篇寫了幾天,擱著,還是覺得要寫完並且發佈才行。
我無意討論「家長應否帶子女遊行」,那其實是「中學生應否談戀愛」的變奏版。

4 Comments  »

  1. Tiger Tigris says:

    but,家长的确不应该带子女游行。这不是谁对谁错的问题,身为家长本来就应该为小孩多考虑一些。

  2. nikita says:

    說得太好了!

    讓小朋友受傷了,道歉是很基本的禮貌。

  3. says:

    Tiger Tigris, FYR:

    http://www.facebook.com/notes/%E9%BB%83%E9%9D%9C/%E4%BB%96%E8%A6%81%E7%9C%8B%E8%A6%8B%E7%9C%9F%E5%AF%A6%E4%B8%96%E7%95%8C%E9%AB%98%E5%A4%AA%E6%B8%B8%E9%81%94%E8%A3%95%E5%B0%8D%E8%AB%87/10150120431149406

    我已說了我不想討論中學生應否談戀愛之類的問題。

    nikita, 我想, 曾某要表現手段強硬也該挑另一個機會, 是吧? 就算我不是媽媽, 也會這麼想。

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